Thoughts.

Hello ! Once again, am back ;)


I always always leave the blog unattended as I was too lazy, keeping the blog for just photo entries can be boring at times :P, plus sharing and revealing too much of my personal feelings or thoughts on the blog is also so not me, i prefer to keep it confidential :)


However, this time around i feel like sharing abit of my thoughts towards love and relationship though. As i was previously reading through a note posted by someone on facebook, it was simply meaningful and really got me thinking ... What type of relationship is more likely to last? First scenario, supposed a girl and a guy met each other at a place, both individuals are already very attracted to each other upon meeting for the first time. They got together in less than a week.. Next scenario, this guy and girl met each other but they did not have feelings for each other, they just hang out as friends where they slowly got closer and one fine day, they realised they were attracted to each other, then only they got together.


So what do you think? I understand that every relationship is different, love at first sight does exist and it does not mean it won;t last either. But for people like me, i cannot bear anymore "too challenging" relationship, therefore the second scenario works more on me. Although i also admit that i might be attracted to someone upon meeting for the first time :P, but i believe this is what we people addressed as "crush" .. How are you supposed to love someone before even getting to know the person yet ? I may be wrong, but guess i am old already, its time to look forward to a more steady relationship rather than going through many trying out relationships and later finding out the guy is actually not right for me, mourning uneccessarily :P Now i get the true meaning of patience through tarot reading, i think? HAHAHA..


Feelings need to be developed slowly, and love is not as easy as it seems, saying "I Love You" is easy, but action speak louder than words. If you really love someone, its the way you portray your love towards your significant other that counts. Love also consist of giving, forgiving and tolerating. Love is only true after you found out all the bad sides of your partner, and is still willing to accept him or her for who they are, finally walking towards marriage and spending the rest of your life together. I also believe, when two people are meant for each other, there is sparks and chemistry between them.., sort of like no matter what things they do together, they will find the thrill in it for doing together :)


Above are just some little views of mine towards love, i've been single for too long, might have different opinions from couples though.. Oh wells, don;t mind me :)


On the other hand, its second day of Chinese New Year, I hereby send my wishes and blessings to those who visit my blog, "KEONG HEE HUAT CHYE" and get more ang paos for those that are celebrating! :))